I GIVE UP ON WOMEN!, Emo / Rant Topic #354654

In the wise words of the (homosexual) Freddie Mercury:
Don't you know honey that love's a game - It's always a hit or miss - So take your aim

Sure it's hard meeting new people especially hot girls, that's what myspace is for ; )

Believe it or not guys, I've actually thought about turning homo at some points because I thought I didn't cut it, man I'm weird!

Maybe it could because I'm being too choosy, even though i'm become far more open - minded than ever before.

Maybe I should really talk abou this to my parents but if they even TRY and place the blame on me liking Mario ( something my brother would definately do ) then I'll refuse to listen!

But most of those girls are only hot on Myspace.

... and I personally don't believe in myspace for that method.

Well I've met a couple awesome girls over myspace I never would have known otherwise and some cool things have happened. You can't always depend on myspace though.

My best advice is not to get too scared, chicks are like guys, we're all people, don't let the overwhelming hotness intimidate you too much : P

Nothing can help you? There is one force that can. That would be you.

You should not completely destroy your emotions, but you should not let a piece of you conquer the whole. You should not bow to yourself.

I can understand your rage at complete lack of control over a particular emotion, and what you have to do is not to change the emotion, not to weaken it, but to grow stronger yourself and overcome it.

In your life you will lose many things you care about because of your fear or your anger, but you shouldn't lose yourself.

Actually, I was in NHY's situation until I found the perfect girl. We both had a crush on eachother and a lot in common. My mistake: I ****ed it up.

My advice: NHY, OSM is right. Just make sure when you find the perfect girl don't **** it up like I did.

You play Bobby in the MFGG rendition of King of the Hill

OK, I'm calm now, sorry about that, MFGG.

Anyways, I know where your coming come, Draco, It drives me nuts at my complete lack of control over Fear, the fact all of my first approaches I either got slagged by my brother or was rejected outright ( and unfairly as well ) attributed ot it ( along with my loner nature at the time ) , in one of the first cases ice was thrown at me!

It easy to see why I am so scared, I don't want to get hurt, again. Heh and then there are times I'm giving advice to others about thier love life because I seem to know what NOT to do... but always end up doing it myself!

I was so frozen with fear once, after seeing a guy get a girl I wanted, I ended up posting a rant on DA, with thier names in it and peopel I know in R / L ended up seeing and er.... it didn't go down too well!

Heck, why should I be a servant to FEAR? Of all the emotions, it is the most sick and discusting of the lot. I think a complete re - evlation of my life would be in order here. I know its going to hurt if i start to face but once its done... it is gone and i knwo from experince as well, that if you face it, you'll discover what it REALLY is, just you over - reacting! If it wasn't for that, I would have being on good terms with Siobhan again a lot sooner than when it happened.

So, what have I learned? FEAR is evil, in fact, maybe I should erase the word from my life completely, ban it altogether.

I have to say, I like guys that are just plain happy to live and not always depressed and whining about everything (Not directing that at you). I also like a guy that can cheer me up, one whos not a jerk, and one that likes me for who I am. (Usually all the cute guys I like hang out with the popular bunch of jerks. And they think I'm weird for being the only girl in school who's in Computer Club...drawing all over my school work, being an outcast, ect.) I don't worry about looks anymore because almost every cute guy is either taken or an ass or both. Maybe I'm asking for too much though...

Anyways, back on subject. You'll find a nice women, just be yourself. The women that run away don't understand you anyway, so don't get broken hearted over them. You'll find a nice women to marry and be with for the rest of your life. Seek a wife likes the same kind of stuff as you, that won't be all, "Ew my husband plays videogames". Don't expect the hottest girl on Earth, though, either.

This post has been edited by Quickie-la on Jul 1 2006, 09:13 PM

Fear is most certainly not evil. All emotions are a double-edged sword, you need to know when they help you and when they don't and adjust yourself to avoid the consequences you don't want.

Joy is pleasant, but if you're happy in the wrong situation, everyone will think you're an ass and hate you.

Anger can give you the strength needed when your own brute force is not enough, but can lead to rash errors and meaningless revenge.

Fear is a sense of danger, a warning things may go wrong, but if it is persistant and common, you will never take the risk when you need to.

EDIT: "edited on this date" at hte bottom ruins the whole atmosphere of my dramatic Kratos post. >:(

This post has been edited by Draco Icebane on Jul 1 2006, 09:14 PM

Go to a bar and pick up a few floozies for practice.

lies

As much as I don't believe humans are capable of love...

BIsexual Freddie Mercury. Get your references right, Kaep.

And as for a lyrics reference, howsabout this one?

NHY, let's do a basic anaylsis of the pros and cons of asking someone you like out for a date.

What's the absolute worst that can happen? She tells you no, tells her friends that you tried to pick her up, and anyone around you may laugh at you. All in all, people move on after a few hours, maybe a day. No long-term harm done.

Stop me if I'm getting this wrong.

Are you that paralyzed by the what-ifs that you don't make a move at all?
Trust me, I've done that whole dragging-my-heels thing too, mostly in others things, but in relationships as well. Doesn't work.

Conversely, if you do ask her out, and she says yes, then you're golden!

...look at me. I'm a 19-year-old with only one serious relationship, and I'm giving f***in' martial advice.

And totally off-topic: What is with the recent rash of emo topics?! Now that school's out, do people have too much time on their hands, so they mope about it? :P

I was wondering that myself, about the whole rash of emo topics, most be a fad!

Honestly Man, i used to be like you that way, The over thinking bit, You constantly over think the bad things that could happen, and how, and why you shouldn't.. The way out of it, is to overthink.. the other way. Think of the possible good things.

I think the more important question is, do you believe in life after love? Cuz I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough.

8D

I mean, it's great that people are being more open about their feelings and such, but it's kinda weird that most of them are depressing.

I mean, even I have some (personal) secrets to spill, and since this is just a message board on the Internet, it's kinda nice to get these things out where you're just an avatar and not an actual person you know in real life.