So I want to get a girlfriend.

but i need gud tips from girls or people with them.

They may not always be right but remember, they're never wrong.

it depends On the girl, but always be a gentleman.
and tell her nice things, make sure she feals loved.....but don't over do it or she might "drown" so to speak.

but like i say'd it depends on the girl.
Now WHERE to find one, i have No idea.

Watch out for Fake ones though, most girls look like diamonds but are ushaly made of glass.
you should look for the unpolished diamonds so to speak, that are the ones you can polish in to pure shiny diamonds.


now for a first step, don't just go look for a "Girl Friend" try becomeing the girls freind.
with time you'l see if you both hit if on, if not...well then your good freind's at least.
(if the later, she can be helpfull for you in your search for a GF)

This post has been edited by NO Body on Apr 24 2008, 06:21 AM

Yeah, I agree with what NO Body's said. As the first rule, and duh of them, just be polite and kind. That will start a friendship. Usually the ones who are 'beautiful' are really just snakes completely full of themselves, so avoid them. (My BFF would kill me right now, I'm basically implying she's ugly :P) Usually ones who are average looking are the bests ones in personality. And besides, guys shouldn't go for just the looks anyways. Once you have found one you might be interested in, start said friendship. Leave it that way for a bit. (Like a month or so at first.) If you think it's comfortable, take the plunge. Even if she says no, you should be able to continue your friendship if she's a true friend.

I've never gone that far before, but I know how it's done.

Trust me, there will be hopefully one girl in your school who likes you. I'm one of the least popular kids in my grade, people think I'm a ****** (I was last year sorta but I've improved a ton). But there was finally a girl in the grade below me who says she has liked me for a while, and we're going out now.

There's 15 girls in my school not counting teachers.
And none of them are in a class that I'm in.

Of course you want to get a girlfriend. Hormones rise, and that occurs. Happens to everyone.


The key concept is patience. You don't actually need a girlfriend, that's the primary thing to remember when you're single. Don't act as though your life goal is to find someone. Usually that happens with time, and the best way is, as said before, with someone you're friends with.

Basically, what everyone said, but in reality, you don't really need a Girlfriend. A Girlfriend is there to make you feel loved.

As long as people know you, and treat you like a somebody, then you should be ok.

And it would really depend on the girl's own likes, as to whether or not she'll like you, and if you aren't a jock or whatever, don't let that get you down.

Also, if you do get a girlfriend, make sure she doesn't mooch off you for crap for her needs, because she'll dump you the minute you can't provide for her.....

Oh, random question, but is this a prom thing?

Just make friends. Don't really chase after people and let it be with no worries.

Ask Her face to face and when you do it dont get al jumpy make it seem like any other request,as if your asking a favor,also dont be afraid to be yourslef and be open with the girl,but know what your sharing with her its ok to have secrets you can keep from her but dont make her think shes alone in the relationship,TELL her how you feel when you see she is doing something,Try not to say things you will regret cuz if you do,TRUST me you WILL regret it.Say things that will make her happy and as stupid as it sounds,dont kiss *** when a problem happens only cave if you see no other alternative. well those are some tips I have but the most important thing is,make sure you actually like her she could look all pretty and ok at first but once your together she can be the worlds biggest *****.

I never knew elly was a lesbian

what

Did Elly ever SAY they were a Girl?

But any way..

Nice.

Just be yourself. Eventually someone will show intrest in you for who you are. Ignore the girls you like. Pay them any sort of attention, and they'll drag you through the **** if they're the least bit evil.

I thought this was a forum, not a dating council.

Anyway, yeah, be yourself. Take it slow. start with aquaintance, then friend, then good friend, great friend, BF, BFF, girlfriend. Take that about at 2-3 weeks or more at each stage.

But I'm not even there yet. 8(