So My Mom is Crazy

Look at this email she sent me:

Keep in mind:

• Later, she threatened that if I slept over at Medaf's house again (something I had been doing for a few weeks now, while his mother was there, so it's not like we were there unsupervised), she'd stop paying for college
• I can't pay $52k a year on my own
• She compared me to a common *****, a ****, and a sort of "Juno" on multiple occasions today and on Tuesday
• She asked very condescendingly and mockingly, "So, are you going to commit suicide now? That's pathetic. Medaf's not worth that much. Doing something like that is stupid." even though I had made no mention of killing myself; it was as if she was encouraging me to
• I'm still a virgin, and neither Medaf or I plan on changing that right now; we're very content how we are now, and have discussed the repercussions of "doing the deed," and just don't want to right now
• My mother (even though throughout my entire life, she preached to me how good abstinence is), no longer believes I am capable of being sexually abstinent
• My mother's assertions about my college success are false; she hasn't seen my report card yet, and has not seen anything of my work ethic; I have not missed an assignment and diligently finish everything
• The day she came to visit, she told me I "looked like crap," and blamed that on Medaf only after she discovered I had spent time with him; before, she chocked my ill-look up to sickness (I am sick) and over-work (it is mid-terms week, and she was imposing by visiting)
• I agreed to her terms of no longer stayign at Medaf's house the moment I called her, and yet our conversation lasted at least a half and hour -- the time after was devoted to sheer emotional abuse and personal attacks
• She found out about all this by sifting through my receipts and spying on my bank account

Ha ha, and I thought college got me away from all this. I think I finally have reason to see an on-campus psychologist. I just finished talking to an RA out of sheer desperation for about an hour (and we both concluded my mum is nuts), and I'm still completely devastated. What do you think, MFGG?

This post has been edited by Mrs. Aforcer on Oct 16 2008, 09:11 PM

Your mum is nuts Mrs. A.

Seriously what the hell?

i'm wondering if you could go anywhere with this

i mean, your mom is threatening to pull you out of school because of sheer paranoia

certainly there's something legal-or-other to prevent that from happening

That's odd.

You need to understand that she's just trying to protect you.

Yes, maybe not in the most...Logical way, but protecting you indeed.

I'm still 17, so she can do whatever she wants.

I wish I could do something.... D:

|:/

Your mom is weird, but I can where she's coming from. She's just over worried about you and Medaf's relation.
Basicly, typical mom's worries x 80,000.

well damn

wait you're 17 and in college?

i'm 17 and still in the first half of grade 12 D:

i have a feeling i shouldnt be laughing right now...
but your mom is creepy...no offence...

I'm 17 and still a junior in high school.

Your mother is bat**** insane. The lack of trust, personal attacks and the assumption that you'll end up like Juno is absolutely ridiculous.

This post has been edited by General on Oct 16 2008, 09:31 PM

holy ****in' ****. your mom is a ***** and a half

write down* a comparison with detailed tables etc. of assignments you've completed, etc., how much work you are doing, etc., and their results, versus anything else you might be doing.
and make a point of comparing the significance of these accomplishments to something as trivial as where you crash for the night.

and question the ethics and morals (as well as the stupidity) of blowing her money on sending you to this prestigious college, you busting your ass working there to make it worthwhile, and then her pulling it back out from under you all because of said trivial detail.

and do repeat that you haven't had sex etc. and let her know your and medaf's stance on this.



*so she can't interrupt or w/e.



seriously how can she be going on calling her own daughter a ****/*****/etc. and saying you're on the road to getting AIDS or whatever, and then ride along on the moral high-horse?

dumb like that, you wash down.

... :|

edit: I am Medaforcer.

This post has been edited by Mrs. Aforcer on Oct 16 2008, 09:48 PM

My dad thought I was gonna be a druggie just because I draw.

Oh well, parents say stupid **** and really the best thing to do is try to tune it out.

*My computer logs me on as her first because I haven't deleted the cookies.

:|

holy crap lightning calm down

although yeah, you're right and Mrs. A should just make some explanaitions to her mother. And preferably find a free/sponsored college.

Dangit, I know she's your mother, but personally I wouldn't care what someone like this thought of what I do. If she's willing to treat you like this, then I wouldn't even say there is much value in what she thinks.

I feel dumb for asking, but I have been wondering this forever...-

Who is Medaf?

...Hi?

Read:

Conditions of love: Obey me and everything I say.

medaf orcer