What do you want in a girl

You didn't learn much.

That woman was ****in' Mother Theresa incarnate.

This post has been edited by JetSetRamazuki on Apr 6 2009, 12:34 AM

I saw her naked by accident in her window

twice

This post has been edited by OSM on Apr 6 2009, 12:36 AM

OSM you little playah

I got a nip-slip.

That'll do for me. Hitting that for me would feel like having sex with Jesus. Not my game.

Not denying this. But I think mental abuse by men contributes to women's poor treatment of men, and vice versa too. I think it's all part of a neverending cycle of emotional and psychological abuse, and someone just needs to put a stop to it.

Our society today seems to be so paranoid of communication sand "just talking things out," so we see that as an excuse to treat our significant others like garbage. And, as a result, those significant others leave the abusive relationship (and, perhaps after one or several more relationships such as this), they become abusive themselves, and go out to perpetuate more abusive relationships. This awful demeanor spreads like a virus, and no one seems to care about finding any sort of cure; in fact, it seems like society and the media only wish to perpetuate such fickle, selfish behaviour.

And I'm not just talking about specifically boys or girls -- I mean everyone.

I beg to differ. We went through a terrible time at the beginning of our relationship that really is not much different than a lot of the things you folks go through. The difference was how we reacted to the problem. Instead of ignoring it or perpetuating it, we talked things out, set up expectations, discussed things that needed to be fixed, etc.

We were hardly "just lucky." We could have fallen into the same trap everyone else does and ended up abusing each other, using each other, and eventually breaking up -- but we chose not too. We valued our relationship enough to break the boundaries and fear of communicating and opened up to each other -- voicing our discontents and problems and actively trying to fix them. We trusted each other and swore not to just contribute 50% to the relationship, but 100%. We promised our all -- no questions asked, no strings attached, no nothing. Just love.

I think the problem today is just that people are too selfish, expect too much, and are scared half to death at the prospect of communicating with their significant other -- and this spells disaster for any relationship.

It wasn't chance at all; it was knowing what to do and actually doing it. And I'll be honest -- hearing people refer to our relationship as "luck" is actually quite offensive. Relationships take effort and devotion, not luck, and really by referring to it as mere "chance" is like stepping on Medaf and my efforts to build and continue a functional, healthy relationship.

</rant>

Heh, thanks.

I WILL I LOVE THAT GUY DONT WURRY

This post has been edited by Mrs. Aforcer on Apr 6 2009, 12:48 AM

fixed


her ass is dynamite

Natural beauty
sense of humor
movie goer
fan of cuddling

No other person in this world could possibly satisfy me.

Edit: I mean isn't that a very reasonable stance since well almost every chick around where I live looks like this:



I'm sorry but I'd rather stay virgin and all that rather than even trying to confront someone as cheap looking as that.

Chances are, they're just as ****ing dumb as the rest.

Look, I'm not that smart eh, I'm pretty ****ing stupid. And if someone's duller than me? Jesus christ how does this person even get dressed?

This post has been edited by Elly on Apr 6 2009, 01:01 AM

I scared JetSet away, I think.

I'm sorry, JetSet, you're still a cool bro! I don't mean to frighten people with my novels posts!

girl who is
-not ugly as sin
-gamer
-weeaboo (**** you i am one too)
-would drink
-tolerant

and is not
-fangirl for anything (this is debatable)
-dumb****

uhhmm, didn't mean to offend of course, but i must admit, there are plenty of people who know what to do and just can't find him/her, and plenty of those who find someone that ****s them up or they **** up.

It's a cruel world, and it can be walked alone, but that only makes it crueler. Even if it boils down to luck, you found someone you can compromise with and that actually knows what to do to work well with you, and that would be nothing insulting.

That's good luck, sister.

Nah, I think we're cool, Mrs. A.

This post has been edited by JetSetRamazuki on Apr 6 2009, 01:09 AM

Okay, I'm seriously trying to be concise here.

No, seriously...! I am!

I know you didn't, bro, which is why I tried to explain myself logically here. I hear this "you just got lucky" thing all the time, and I personally believe people say it as a way to justify their own flaws. They use it to excuse their own lack of effort/communication/etc. resulting in an inability to get a significant other -- because it's "just luck," not really a problem with themselves. See what I'm getting at here?

True, and while the former is certainly up to luck (yes, it was by chance that I happened to meet Medaf in Government class, or by sheer luck that I one day found myself left late after school and he decided to awkwardly tell me that I had a distinct habit of furrowing my eyebrows), the latter is all about you (collectively, not personally) and your own abilities/flaws or that of the other person. Yes, a relationship is a group effort, and while it is luck that determines whether or not the person will be someone willing to contribute effort to the cause, the perpetuation of the relationship isn't about luck at all. I suppose that was my point.

True, true, and I think we all get jaded to some extent; it takes a great deal of maturity and strength to not let that affect a good relationship.

Yes, I did find that person, but if it were not for a mutual effort, that luck would be for naught. perhaps. for the sake of compromise, we can say the "meeting" part is a matter of luck, but the "long-term" part is more a matter of effort and devotion, yes? I'm not saying the former is easy, but I am saying, with the right level of maturity, knowledge, and effort, the latter (in theory) should not be a problem.

This post has been edited by Mrs. Aforcer on Apr 6 2009, 01:18 AM

Someone who accepts some of my interests.

of course, that'll never happen because most women IRL are greedy *****s.

This post has been edited by Ashura on Apr 6 2009, 01:24 AM

Yep, i hear ya'. And all your points are valid and understandable.

@OSM: She seemed to fancy you a bit. Too bad that man ***** Anthony got to her first.

I've always said that the idea of fate or luck etc is merely a guideline. Nothing happens without effort. This ideal is how I met my girlfriend.

This post has been edited by Redux on Apr 6 2009, 01:31 AM

Amen.

Good, good, I'm glad we can see eye-to-eye on this one.

So you say that to yourself when you're in the bathroom/sleeping/eating breakfast? [/traumafromenglishteacheritookinfall2007]

Wh-what do you mean?

I dunno, do I?

Ok really... this is not something you say to people. This is really annoying. If someone is talking about a problem they have, it is not really helpful to say "Oh, that doesn't happen to me." And plus, I think it's good that he considers that to be a problem. A lot of guys would just be fine with a a girl with tiggo bitties, a good face, and a nice ass and not care about talking with her. If you're talking about a problem you have with Taylor about your roommates or something, how would you feel if he just responded with "I never had that problem (and did the verbal version of an elipses)"


And Des, I think it's really good that you see that as a problem that there is no conversation and that the relationship is only about lust or whatever.

I think you're joking here, but I'm not sure

And cowgirl too, she'd crush you.