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Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?
I'm married [ 4 ]  [3.48%]
I'm engaged [ 1 ]  [0.87%]
I'm in a relationship that's kind of serious [ 23 ]  [20.00%]
I know someone special, but it's not serious yet [ 12 ]  [10.43%]
I used to, but not presently [ 16 ]  [13.91%]
I'm as single as can be [ 59 ]  [51.30%]
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Kyori
Posted on Nov 5 2009, 01:02 PM
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I'm a GUY >.<
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QUOTE (Anubis @ Nov 5 2009, 05:59 PM)
I mean, love seems fine and dandy, but why trying at this age when it won't last?

Eh, chances are that it's not going to be 'love' if you date somebody at your age, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't!

Social experiences are social experiences, if you learn more about relationships and wimminz then it's a win!


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Posted on Nov 5 2009, 01:14 PM
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QUOTE (Pikax @ Nov 5 2009, 10:01 AM)
And that in turn begs the question: is there any reason to get into a relationship, and if not, why do we?

Can't speak for everyone, but here's my reasons:
Companionship
kisses
hugs
free back massages
someone to take care of
someone to appreciate
someone who appreciates me
someone who can comfort/be comforted by me
someone to talk to about things
the feeling that i will never, ever be alone


also greater chance of success in mating (success meaning conception, birth, and raising of a child) so it's also evolutionary


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B.M.
  Posted on Nov 5 2009, 03:55 PM
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take a wiz in da bottle: saves toilet water bro
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QUOTE (Hippoman @ Nov 5 2009, 10:08 AM)
I was trying to say I'm more in tune with people who associate love with infatuation than people who say "I love you too" three times a day and have no other opinion than "us being together is the norm".

ah, i see
that's not the way i think, but i get what you're saying


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Posted on Nov 5 2009, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE (Zero Chronii @ Nov 5 2009, 06:17 AM)
I can't let anyone know I love her, or they will use her to get to me, and then WE WILL ALL BE DOOMED

holy ****




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Posted on Nov 5 2009, 04:00 PM
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Love, love is a verb
Love is a doing word
Fearless on my breath
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Posted on Nov 5 2009, 04:02 PM
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QUOTE (Mecha the Slag @ Nov 5 2009, 05:00 PM)
love is a verb

Hey, you just summed up my entire philosophical opinion about love in under 15 characters.


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 08:27 AM
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Definitely the best thread I've ever started.

I think true love entails a high degree of self-sacrifice and unwavering commitment, which differentiates it from mere infatuation or lust.

I agree that having a girlfriend sounds really neat, but some of the stories I've heard would've made me doubt the existence of real love, if it hadn't been for an old couple I knew who truly loved each other.


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Mrs. Aforcer
Posted on Nov 6 2009, 04:06 PM
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QUOTE (Mecha the Slag @ Nov 5 2009, 04:00 PM)
Love, love is a verb
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QUOTE (VinnyVideo @ Nov 6 2009, 08:27 AM)
Definitely the best thread I've ever started.

Really...? Really?

Either you haven't made many threads in your lifetime.

Or have a very, very bizarre, contradictory idea of what "good" is.

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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 04:18 PM
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"Researchers David Lykken and Auke Tellegen (1993) surmise that romantic love is rather like ducklings' imprinting: Given repeated exposure to someone after childhood, you may form a bond (infatuation) with almost any available person who has a roughly similar background and level of attractiveness and who reciproates your affections"


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Pikax
Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE (Elyk @ Nov 6 2009, 09:18 PM)
"Researchers David Lykken and Auke Tellegen (1993) surmise that romantic love is rather like ducklings' imprinting: Given repeated exposure to someone after childhood, you may form a bond (infatuation) with almost any available person who has a roughly similar background and level of attractiveness and who reciproates your affections"

QUOTE (Raie @ Nov 4 2009, 06:06 PM)
People also need to figure out that love, lust, and infatuation are not the same thing.


So who's correct, Raie or the two researchers?


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:41 PM
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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:44 PM
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QUOTE (Pikax @ Nov 6 2009, 06:38 PM)


So who's correct, Raie or the two researchers?

Those researchers didn't say that lust and infatuation were love, did they?


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:44 PM
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QUOTE (Pikax @ Nov 6 2009, 04:38 PM)


So who's correct, Raie or the two researchers?

not mutually exclusive
infatuation is one-sided
love is between two people


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Pikax
Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:46 PM
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QUOTE (Chippermonkey @ Nov 6 2009, 10:44 PM)
Those researchers didn't say that lust and infatuation were love, did they?

That's what it looked like they were saying.

QUOTE (Pip @ Nov 6 2009, 10:44 PM)
not mutually exclusive
infatuation is one-sided
love is between two people

Love = co-infatuation? You sure about that?

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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:47 PM
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QUOTE (Pip @ Nov 6 2009, 03:44 PM)
infatuation is one-sided

Uh... Are you sure you know what infatuation is?


Two people can be infatuated with each other and not be in love.

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QUOTE (Pikax @ Nov 6 2009, 05:38 PM)


So who's correct, Raie or the two researchers?

logically research by professional scientists should be more credible than a post made by a teenage girl on a mario forum

however they are referring to "romantic love"

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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:49 PM
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By the way, "Romantic love" is pretty much infatuation.


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:50 PM
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QUOTE (Raie @ Nov 6 2009, 04:47 PM)
Uh... Are you sure you know what infatuation is?


Two people can be infatuated with each other and not be in love.

i was simplifying it


generally, infatuation doesn't go anywhere is what i meant


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE (Pip @ Nov 6 2009, 03:50 PM)
i was simplifying it


generally, infatuation doesn't go anywhere is what i meant

You'll just confuse him, though!


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Posted on Nov 6 2009, 05:54 PM
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QUOTE (Raie @ Nov 6 2009, 10:51 PM)
You'll just confuse him, though!

Nah, your post about "romantic love = infatuation" did that to me more so. I can only guess therefore that there is some "other level of love" or something, and it is a total guess.

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